Imma Momma

Aloha O’e

2010-03-08T16:20:00.001-07:00

I have decided to discontinue Imma Momma. It’s only just over a year old and I have connected with many wonderful bloggers, but it is time to set it aside and replace this energy with more important things. Plus I’m part of/running 4 other blogs!

It’s been real. It’s been fun!

Feel free to follow my on my photoblog!

A glimpse into my heart

2010-02-20T21:38:00.001-07:00

I know some of you may think it’s super cheesy and cliché but seriously this child has me wrapped around his finger. It’s pathetic. But I love it. So here’s me having a sappy mommy moment, and I want to show of my baby who turned 3 years old over night, (I swear)! The lighting in the room was fabulous. Couldn’t pass it up.

It’s difficult to blog without internet…

2010-02-12T13:48:00.001-07:00

But that problem is finally fixed!

I have been feeling particularly blessed and I am so grateful for

my health.
my children’s health.
my husband’s health.
my home.
Cameron’s employment.
a warm bed.
hot water.
electricity.
friends that keep comin' around!
my parents.
my testimony of the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ.
Temples.
the power of forgiveness.
The Book of Mormon.
a working vehicle.
the sunshine.
good influences in my life.
opportunities to learn about myself and others

What are you grateful for?

If you don’t look, you won’t see it.

2010-01-29T14:42:00.001-07:00

I’ve mentioned I’ve been trying to get out of the house, and yesterday was the day to do it! Monkey was already in his 2nd outfit of the day because he spilled his milk all over himself, my boys were dressed and ready to get out the door! I was figuring out details with a friend on the phone and turned the corner into the kitchen and found this:

I swear to you I was not on the phone for more than 15 minutes, of which maybe the last 3 my kids were much too quiet…

What would you have done? Freaked out? Yelled? Cried? Laughed? Get our your camera and document it?

It wasn’t all of my flour so there was no reason to cry. All plans put on hold, I let them play. I got down and my knees got dirty, but it was not worth using my energy to be angry. My little one was just having way too much fun…

Yes, we did eventually get out of the house… an hour later than planned. But I’m telling you, there are not many times when I know I have handled a situation in a way I know my Heavenly Father would proud of... but this was one of those times.

At first I saw a mess. But when I took a moment to “see”, I saw an opportunity. I believe that we see what we want to see. We have thought patterns that determine so much of what we do, say and how we react! But these are only thoughts, and thoughts can be changed.

I think we want to cherish the moments in our children’s childhood, but if we don’t look we wont see them.

I used a dry rag to gather up the flour, scooped what I could into a bowl and threw it out. Vacuumed up what was left with the attachment that looks like a brush. DONE.

Who Woulda Thought…?

2010-01-27T09:19:00.001-07:00

That these two … would grow up, fall in love and get married…to have two of their own…

Makes me wonder who is out there raising my future daughter-in-laws… (please do a good job!)

Oh, What do you do in the winter time?

2010-01-26T08:20:00.001-07:00

We’ve been doing a lot of this:

And too much of this:

With one car down, we got into our daily routine which rarely consisted of doing much outside of the house besides play in the snow for a few minutes.

The car was down for months.

Now it’s fixed and I’m having a hard time getting out of our home-bound routine. I want to get out, but honestly I’m just too lazy! That’s the honest truth of it. Between lunch and naptimes, the teens getting home from school, Cam getting home from work… you know, it’s a routine!

Have you ever experienced this? If you have, how did you get out and about again… other than errands? Or did you?

Can we do that again?

2010-01-25T06:12:00.000-07:00

It’s not often enough that we go out and have fun as a family. I mean, we have lots of fun all the time… but you know those really fun days that you created some amazing memories? Those are the days we don’t have often enough. One of those days was sledding with my boys and enjoying the SNOW! They had fun climbing up the white, snow covered hill to hop on the sled and ride down the hill without a care in the world! It took a few turns to realize that there was so much snow it would indefinitely “splash” up the front into their (our) faces… which, err… wasn’t as fun. So the rest of the day they went down on their tummies facing the top of the hill… I can’t explain why, but that is SO MUCH FUN! The snow just kept coming down the whole day! We made snow angels and snowballs and kept busy and moving so the cold never sat in! I would love another day like that even if it meant snow!

I miss…

2010-01-23T06:11:00.000-07:00

…playing in the ocean!

…Aunty Stella

…My parents.

…Plumerias.

‘Nuff Said.

Home-made laughter…

2010-01-22T06:10:00.000-07:00

This picture makes me literally laugh out loud! This is one of Monkey’s many silly faces. He’s getting to the phase where his behavior is easily encouraged by the reaction of his “audience”. He’s a ham. He used to refuse to let me take pictures of him, he wouldn’t even look at the camera! Now he’s the one that asks me to take pictures of him… but don’t expect too many “normal” shots of this kid. He’s a poser and lately silly faces have been his forte.

I can’t imagine where he gets it…

Yes, comedy and laughter run freely in our home…

It’s all worth it

2010-01-21T06:09:00.000-07:00

So, I feel like I haven’t slept in three years… and I don’t have the figure I did before my first pregnancy… sometimes I can’t remember my own name and refer to myself as mommy… and I’ve poured ketchup into Monkey’s cup instead of milk… in all honesty, I feel like I’m losing my brain.

But it’s all worth it.

I am only a shred of the woman I used to be before I became a mom, but I am 10 times the woman I was. I am more patient (being a bossy first-born, this is a big deal for me), more kind, loving, and affectionate. I have little people who need me more than anyone else has ever needed me. It feels good to be needed. It feels even better to be loved unconditionally. It is the best feeling in the world knowing we will be a family even after we die.

Hug your babies. Tell them you love them. Forgive those who have hurt you. Fall back in love. Go on vacation. Play in the snow. Enjoy the sunshine. Laugh. Be happy.

Where there’s a will there’s a way….

2010-01-20T06:03:00.000-07:00

What do guys do when they don’t want to buy a season’s pass, or climb a mountain? When they don’t want to waste daylight traveling to their destination? When they want a quick (and sometimes not so quick') snowboarding fix?

They build their own jump in the backyard.

True Story.

And who gets to freeze her fingers off taking pictures for them?

Yep. That would be me.

On the bright side, I’m getting to practice action photography… and night shots!

Just another day in paradise

2010-01-19T13:44:00.001-07:00

I’m not going to apologize for being a blogging slacker, because there is no obligation. If you missed me, I am flattered! However, I dare say I actually miss blogging! I may have to start up with daily topics/themes again to help my thinking process. It’s been a challenge coming up with something I want to write about more than the daily happenings of my little family… which I “journal” on another blog. But I miss you all. Yes, I miss the comments and the mentally stimulating conversations… the things I learn from you all that make my life a little easier and more enjoyable! So there! I said it.

Until I get back into a routine, I am going to draw writing inspiration from photos I have taken… saaavy!?

Anyone else’s house look like this? Multiple times a day?!

How am I supposed to be upset with that face!?!? I’m turning into a softy/push over. I have thrown my hands up and most of the day my house is cluttered with toys and books! I pick up first thing in the morning (or last thing at night), just before Cam gets home and if we have guests… *sigh*… on a good day. Eventually , they will grow out of this phase, right? RIGHT? (and onto other undesirable phases to be sure!) Yet, I love it because it means my children are alive and well! Something to be grateful for.

Kool-Aid Playdough… Thanks Emmy Mom!

2009-12-21T08:43:00.001-07:00

I got this recipe from Emmy Mom, bookmarked it, and finally made it! It’s going to be a Christmas gift for Monkey, and he’s going to love it! I’m so excited! I ran out of salt before I made it in all the colors I wanted (green and pink). It was so simple I will probably get to making it again sooner than later! I mentioned the playdough on my facebook status, and had a few inquiries. So here it is!

Koolaid Playdough
1 Cup white flour
1 Cup water
1/4 Cup salt
3 T. Vegetable oil
1 (heaping) T. cream of tartar (essential for good texture)
1 package Kool-aid (generic brand works great)
Mix all together in a medium sauce pan and whisk until smoothish. Cook and stir constantly over medium heat until dough starts to gather into a ball (takes 2-4 minutes). Remove from pan and knead (when cool enough) until it looks like playdough. It's ready!

You wont find a recipe for playdough that doesn’t require Cream of Tartar (I know, I looked. It’s not something I happened to have!) So, just go get some. It’s with the spices and it’s white. I’m not telling you this because I think you’re an idiot by any means… I’m telling you this because I had no idea what I was looking for what I went to buy some. Now I know. And if you didn’t, now you know too. :)

Happy Play Doughing!

My Christmas Hat

2009-12-19T10:44:00.001-07:00

For the first 2 years that Cameron and I were married he traveled every week, all over the country. Being the thoughtful husband he is, he would often come home bearing a gift. ;) After an event in Anaheim, California – he brought home for me, a light blue, Tinkerbell “santa” hat. I absolutely adore this hat. I wear it as often as possible between Thanksgiving and Christmas… and not only it is darling, it’s exceptionally cozy and warm! Something I have recently noticed about this hat is that little girls love it! I sometimes forget it’s on my noggin’ and just assume little girls are staring at me because I’m breathtakingly beautiful… hahaha… but before the thought really has a chance to take hold they shyly tell me, “I like your hat…” Oh! Right! My cute Tinkerbell hat! I like it too! :)

This picture was taken for Cam 3 years ago just before the Holidays while he was away… and obviously I was pregnant. This was with my first. (After our first son was born, Cam changed departments with that company so he wouldn’t have to travel anymore). My good ol’ hat. Have I mentioned that I love it!?

These were taken last week. Still rockin’ the Tinkerbell hat! That’s my niece giving it a try… :)

That’s the story of my hat! I suppose that can kind of be considered a type of tradition… so throw that in there!

6 More Days and Counting!!!!!

One More Week

2009-12-18T10:49:00.001-07:00

Really? Only one more week until Christmas Morning? This is one of the best parts of Christmas! The anticipation,Holiday get-togethers, last minute-shopping (admit it, you love it!), neighbor gifts and enjoying the lights while they are still up! The week before Christmas is my favorite!! I will try to remember to take pictures of a few of the things I’ve made and post them AFTER Christmas so I wont give anything away… :) Enjoy Your Weekend!!!

I wasn't gonna... but I have to!

2009-12-14T12:36:00.002-07:00

This one had me cracking up! If you missed it, here it is!

How to have fun in that white, wet, freezing cold stuff Part 2 of 2

2009-12-08T08:48:00.000-07:00

Now that we’re toasty warm (except for my nose… any suggestions for that?) and ready to be outside with the rest of the family… we need to be prepared for fun.

Here are some links to resources I have located for fun ideas of things to do in the snow (mostly kid-friendly).

My favorite idea is putting colored water in spray bottles and spraying the snow! That just sounds like so much fun and something I never would have thought up myself!

I also want to make a huge snow…. SOMETHING! How cool is that dinosaur? And that SNOWMAN!!!

So now that you have an idea of how to have FUN in the snow…

GO DO IT!

Then come back and tell me all about it! Plus, I can always use more ideas!

How to have fun in that white, wet, freezing cold stuff Part 1 of 2

2009-12-07T14:39:00.001-07:00

Winter is my least favorite season and if it weren’t for Christmas I would have absolutely no reason to even be open-minded about Winter. But HELLO I live in UTAH! It feels like winter for approximately HALF OF A YEAR! I can either moan and groan and be miserable…

Or I can find some ways to enjoy it. The snow, that is.

First rule of thumb came from a friend/neighbor who is originally from Upstate New York. Apparently, it’s even colder there. Whatever. Cold is cold. But she made a really great point in response to one of my anti-snow Facebook statuses a while ago. Paraphrasing, she told me, to learn to layer because “Nothing beats the spirit (of winter) like being cold”. Words of Wisdom! I think I’m going to get this quote in vinyl lettering to put on my door. Hahaha… not. Okay, maybe.

So rule #1, Get the right stuff to stay warm in the snow!

Long sleeve shirt? check.
Sweater? Check.
Big, warm snow jacket? check.
Beanie/warm hat? check.
Scarf? check.
Snow pants? check. (These have to be waterproof or they don’t count. These can also be called “bibs” I have learned. You might feel like a farmer but these things work warm, toasty miracles!)
Two pairs of socks? check.
Snow shoes/boots? check. (Again, these have to be pretty water-proof, my skater-style DCs do not count! Neither to my knee-high faux leather boots!)
Gloves? check. (One (or 2) pairs of those thin cotton kind to go under the water-proof snow kind).
You also may want to consider earmuffs if your hat doesn’t cover ‘em up.

Alrighty. Once I actually had the right clothing to keep my warm I became open minded to exploring the possibilities of PLAYING outside in the snow… and maybe even enjoying myself. Yes, it’s a hassle to layer especially when it’s me + 2, but we’re working on the “system” and it is getting easier. oh yes, and you should probably make a bathroom run BEFORE you have 4 or 5 layers of clothing on…

To be continued…

Positive Changes

2009-12-05T11:55:00.001-07:00

“Don’t let your past dictate who you are, but let it be a part of who you become.” –Learning to Love the Journey

I have discovered so many wonderful, empowering sources that really have helped me to take control of my life and situations. Our lives are what we make them. What we think about is what we attract. There is only one thing that can limit you from reaching your dreams and full potential - YOU. The way you think can either lead you to happiness and success or depression and failure. Did you know it is possible to change your thought patterns and by doing so, change you life?! It’s true!

A few of the sources I have discovered that have helped me be a happier, more peaceful person are:

Louise Hay’s “Love Yourself, Heal Your Life Workbook”
Louise Hay’s “Heal Your Body”
Carol Tuttle’s “It’s Just My Nature”
Carol Tuttle’s Online Energy Profiling Course
Char Ravelo & Tobbie Tuttle’s “Learning to Love The Journey”

And developing friendships with positive people who are honest with themselves, are willing to forgive me and look past my imperfections, help me develop my talents and encourage me to be the best person I can be!

You Can Do Hard Things

2009-12-04T09:33:00.001-07:00

I don’t know about you – but sometimes things just suck. Both things within your control and things beyond your control… sometimes it’s a fight to get through the day! It’s usually not the children, sometimes it is the husband, usually its finances or dealing with other peoples’ choices. Sometimes it’s yourself. You know what you feel like doing about it, what other people expect you to do about it, and what the right thing to do about it is. Usually, those three things do not coincide. I love the quote in Harry Potter when Dumbledore tells Harry “You must make the choice between what is right and what is easy” (or something to that effect). I think there is much truth in this statement. Rarely, if ever, is the best path the easy path. And I’ll tell you right now,

You Can Do Hard Things!

Yes. You can. You can! You can! You can! Don’t you ever forget that! I think every family should have this up somewhere in their home. It is when we do hard things that we grow as individuals and really get a glimpse of our full potential. You. Are. Amazing!

"Nap-Time!"

2009-12-03T08:29:00.001-07:00

Sometimes I feel like an MMA fighter. Minus the hitting, blood and KOs. I don't think I would do well in that industry. Nope, I wouldn't do well at all! But I can hold my own against my almost-3-year old and his teammate, my 18-month-old, at the same time. I'm trying to get them to settle down, and they think we're playing. Finally it's time for someone to tap out. 9 out of 10 times I win. Where's my champion belt?! I think I deserve one.

Facebook.

2009-12-02T08:28:00.001-07:00

You wanna know why I haven't been blogging? Facebook. That's why! It's not just connecting with old and current friends anymore... it's Restaurant City, Sorority Life, Bejeweled Blitz, Fish World, Word Challenge, Zoo World, Happy Aquarium, Pet Society... it's BAD! And I'm so guilty.

Anyone else have this problem?

Holiday Traditions

2009-12-01T11:50:00.001-07:00

Life just keeps on going day by day whether I'm ready for it or not. The sun rises when my body is not yet rested. The sun goes down when I am not yet ready to end my day. Day after day after day. I really dislike how short the days feel this time of year! But I am excited for my absolutely most favorite holiday of the year! Yes, that would be Christmas!

We keep it simple around here. My almost-3-year-old doesn't expect much and my 18-month-old probably doesn't even remember last year's! We're trying to start traditions now to keep things simple in the future! At this age, my boys are more interested in unwrapping everything then actually receiving gifts. I love the simplicity of children. I could wrap empty boxes and they would be thrilled! Hm. Maybe I will...

I also make cheese balls and share them with our friends and neighbors! If you're really lucky, maybe I'll share the recipe! :D My mom made them every year and it's something I always looked forward to. Now, I do the same and my husband looks forward to them!

My husband's birthday is on the 23rd of December and Monkey Man's is on the 28th! It's an exceptionally busy month!

What are some traditions you have for the holidays?

A few of my favorites...

2009-11-13T19:29:00.001-07:00

I know I haven't been consistently blogging, but I thought you might like these. If you don't follow Team-Twilight.com (and like the Saga) you should be. I love these images from a photo shoot Kristen, Taylor and Rob did. One day I will be taking photos of celebrities!

And this one just makes me smile!

Enjoying the Outdoors...

2009-11-10T10:38:00.001-07:00

We got a little fresh air. Cold, crisp, cold, fresh air. The guys/boys loved it! I enjoyed it too. It was nice to be out of the house doing something different and spontaneous. I'm glad I brought my camera along (believe it or not, I don't always). My babies are growing right before my eyes!

Balance vs. Harmony

2009-10-29T09:10:00.002-06:00

I find myself claiming that I want balance in my life. But in 25 years I have not been able to accomplish that. I've recently realized that what I really want in my life is harmomy. I may never have all the aspects of my life balanced (meaning they are all equal), but if they are all in harmony and do not cause discontent in my life, that is what I want.

There are four main aspects in our lives that we generally try to "balance": Social, Physical, Educational (Mental), and Spiritual.

More specifically in my life, I want harmony between these different aspects of my life:
Family
Church
ME
Friends/Family
Work
Home/House

Breaking those down even more specifically:
Family = Healthy relationships with Husband, children, bro-in-laws
Church = Responsibilities, Spirituality
Friends/Family = building, strengthening healthy relationships with by visiting/writing/calling
Work/Income = Cam's work, Photography, MaryKay
Home/House = daily straightening, deep cleaning, meals, environment
ME= ALL OF THESE THINGS!

What does your list look like? I'd bet it looks pretty similar.

Now that I have things written out, I will have to break them down even more. And find out which things are not in harmony and how I will change them so they can be.

Super Saturday

2009-10-10T09:59:00.002-06:00

What does "Super Saturday" mean to you? I think of a super cleaning saturday. A super day to clean the house, cars, mow the lawn... if you're giggling to yourself right now, it is very possible that are an LDS woman that is thinking about a Relief Society Activity...

I don't know where it originated from or how wide-spread this yearly tradition is, but right now we are planning ours. What are some successful projects you have seen or done? This is one that I am really hoping we are able to do:

(U Create)

On another note: Because MaryKay is a huge part of my life right now, and I think about it A LOT, I'm going to start talking/blogging about it. I've been trying to separate blogging and MaryKay - but that leaves me with little else to blog about because THAT is what is on my mind! So if you're not a big fan of MaryKay, I'm not going to apologize, I'm just going to ask you to stick with me and pretend you care! AIIGHT?!

Great Quote...

2009-10-07T10:09:00.001-06:00

"The world has enough women who are tough; we need women who are tender. There are enough women who are coarse; we need women who are kind. There are enough women who are rude; we need women who are refined. We have enough women of fame and fortune; we need more women of faith. We have enough greed; we need more goodness. We have enough vanity; we need more virtue. We have enough popularity; we need more purity. "

-Margaret D. Nadauld

Finally - I see it!

2009-10-06T10:09:00.002-06:00

You may or may not know (or care) that I am not a fan of Rob Pattinson as Edward Cullen in the Twilight Saga. Which is the root of my "Team Jacob" attitude. (If it were only based on the books, to be completely honest, I am definitely torn, but am happy with the outcome). That being said...

I finally came across an image that I really really like. I finally see a connection between RPatt and the Edward in my mind...

Here it is. Tell me what you think!

See 100 New Moon stills HERE.

Re: PINK

2009-10-06T09:51:00.002-06:00

Have you ever had a fun evening with your girlfriends that make you feel like you're young and fun again? Well, that was that night. After an evening of girlfriend time, my husband and boys were having so much fun doing whatever boys do that I had some free time! The house to myself... dressed up and nowhere to go...

So what did I do?

I put on some PCD, Beyonce, Brittany and was a Rock Star. It was silly. It would have been embarrassing if anyone had seen me... but it was a BLAST! I used to do that sort of thing all the time when I was in my pre-teens and teens... but it's honestly been YEARS and it felt GOOD! haha. I've still got it. But you are never going to see it! No sirree. And then what did I do after I was feeling young, hip and pretty? I had a little photo shoot of myself... with my trustee iphone. So. Professional. (not.)

I'll be honest, I'm back to my pre-pregnancy weight (#2 pregnancy) and it feels great! It feels good to like what I see. It feels good to know that my husband likes what he sees. It feels good to know that I could probably be a rock star if I sold my soul - but I won't. I am happy being a mom. I am happy being a wife. I am happy being me.

It was fun while it lasted. It was a self-esteem booster. But I know that true happines doesn't come from good looks and hot moves. It doesn't come from being desired or loved by the world.
My happiness is rooted in my healthy marriage. It's rooted in having the knowledge I have of the bigger plan. It is rooted in knowing what is truly important. It is rooted in making choice NOW that will bring me eternal joy beyond this life.

Funny how something so silly had such a lesson behind it!

PINK

2009-09-25T22:12:00.003-06:00

I'll have to save this story for later... it's a good one.

JAM Wedding...

2009-09-24T12:23:00.002-06:00

How stinkin' cute is THIS?!?! (I just adore Pam and Jim!)... you tried to put it up here, but's not letting me :( so go HERE! Until I figure it out...

A free moment...

2009-09-19T22:20:00.002-06:00

And by "free" I mean, my babies are sleeping soundly and The Teens and my Dear Husband (a.k.a. "DH") are making a Walmart run for me (I dearly despise Walmarts on Saturday Nights in Utah County...) and I am not "working". My Thank You notes are sent, my products delivered, my checkbooks balanced, my PJs on, and the house is silent. It's a rare occasion, people. I am cherishing the chance I have to think and let my thoughts drift in and out of the weeks happenings... and blogging!

Did I mention I team-teach the 4 year olds in Sunday school? I do, and it's fun. I teach tomorrow and should be preparing... so I suppose I am stealing this free time. Consider is stolen. I am also on the Enrichment Committee. I am looking forward to the next activity!

Mary Kay is rocking my socks. I am working on finding a balance that will allow me to be successful, yet not keep me from my family. We have settled with 2 parties a week + one night of Training. That's one thing I love it that I CAN set my own schedule. It's GREAT! On top of the temporal rewards that everyone can see, are emotional and psychological rewards that are nearly impossible to describe. I love who I am becoming, I'll just say that much! And I don't know how I have gone without Microdermabrasion treatments my whole life!

My boys just keep growing up. Monkey's latest favorite has been Blue's Clues. I didn't realize he was actually learning so much until he found a clock face and told me which one was the big arm and which one was the small arm. I asked him what time it was and he told me "Nine O'Clock." close enough, buddy. And he loves hearing the stories of the Three Little Pigs, and Goldilocks and the Three Bears. He is such a sweetie and is very protective of his brother and is constantly looking out for him and keeping an eye on him. I love it. He is such a great First Born!

Turtle is just a little teddy bear! He's exceptionally cuddly and absolutely adores his brother. It melts my heart. He loves to laugh and has been picking up signs pretty quickly lately. He picked up "more", "please", "candy" and "thank you" as quickly as he realized he could make the motions. I loves making hand motions for different songs and whatnot. I'm pretty sure he does it so eagerly because he sees his brother doing it. What an influence they have on one another already!

DH is getting a pedicure and foot massage tonight... as soon as he gets back with a few things we need for tomorrow! Unless I fall asleep first... lol... that wouldn't make him too happy! It happens ALL THE TIME... It's hard to keep my eye lids open! And I'm just so exhausted... but know I probably wont even get a good night's sleep...

If you missed it...!!!

2009-09-14T10:07:00.002-06:00

Movie Trailers - Movies Blog

Forget Halloween...

2009-09-06T16:11:00.001-06:00

The mornings have been pretty cool the fast couple of weeks... which means Fall is just around the corner... which means Christmas is going to come and go before I know it! I LOVE Christmas! I'm excited about possibly/hopefully having a White Christmas this year. And is that is the only day it snowed - EVEN BETTER!! hahaha...

I would listen to Christmas music all year long if it didn't bother my Dear Husband... and anyone else who might be around to hear it.

I'm sitting around watching my kids, husband, brother and brothers-in-law hanging out enjoying each others company and getting along... and it's pretty much THE BEST feeling.

I want the "holidays" to start already. Well, maybe we'll just go ahead and start it around here!

I'm sure I can find some fun projects... because ya'll have the best blogs for that kinda stuff!!

soon enough...

2009-09-05T08:58:00.003-06:00

Finished reading New Moon again, and sheesh! I'm super DUPER (yes I just said super duper) excited to see how New Moon plays out on the big screen! I have high hopes for this one, and just love this story! Anywho. I'm absolutely team Jacob in New Moon. Plus Taylor Lautner reminds me of another stunning man, who I am desperately in love with..

Are you sick of hearing about how much I love my husband? Too bad. ;) I think I can convince him to go to the midnight showing with me... but we'll see. That would be so perfect!

Tumbling around in my mind...

2009-09-04T11:42:00.001-06:00

As I was just going to type "I wish I had something interesting to tell ya'll"... I thought of, like, 20 things that I could share.

First thing on my mind this morning... remember the Nelson Family? Well, sweet baby Lucas passed away this week in the arms of his family. Absolutely heartbreaking.

Death is something I did not deal well with at all. Until my brother died. You would think since he was so close, it would be the hardest to deal with. I'm not going to lie, it was no picnic, and it really sucked. But I surprised myself at how well I "dealt" with it. I KNOW the reason I dealt with it so well is because we had so many family members and friends praying for us. The experience was incredibly spiritual and peaceful. Heartbreaking, but peaceful. There must have been angels with their arms around me (and my immediate family) holding my insides together and my heart from breaking into a million pieces. It was because of the prayers and faith of those who cared about my family that I was able to function and let my faith in a Loving Father in Heaven carry me through the weeks.

This is what we can do for the Nelson Family.

I've been holding my babies a little longer. Telling them "I love you" a few more times a day. Letting them get away with the little things that have no eternal consequence (which, let's be honest, at 2 is pretty much everything). It is much more important for them to know that I love them unconditionally than whether or not he makes a mess - again. For the teenagers it is more important for them to know that we want to trust them and communicate with them, than if they are 15 minutes late, or forget to load the dishwasher. I don't have the energy to be angry, at all! At least not longer than it takes to take a few deep breaths.

I don't know what the point is, I'm just putting my thoughts out there... well, not "on paper".... just out there.

Let your kids blow bubbles in their milk. Let them talk for a few more minutes on the phone. Let them dump out all the legos on the floor, and talk with your child as you both clean them up! Go out on a one-on-one with him/her and get to know your child! Instead of spanking or yelling- hug (that would really throw them off and make an impression!!) Don't let anger motivate you to clean your home. Don't let anger be the reason you're yelling at your child, instead of cheering him on!

I'm not trying to tell you how to parent. I'm just encouraging you to stop being angry and hug, forgive, hug... forgive and hug! :) Don't assume your family knows how you feel - Make sure your family knows you love them. We really don't know when we will have to say goodbye.

Meet The TEENS...

2009-09-02T13:57:00.001-06:00

Since they are going to be a part of our family for a while, I figured it is blog-worthy and I KNOW you want to "meet" them! Plus I just love showing them off!

He's the strong silent type. Ridiculously talented in... well, everything! Sports, dancing, music... you name it he can do it. And if he can't - give him a minute to figure it out and he'll pretty much blow your mind.

Our social bug, he's happy-go lucky, and always smiling! He's just so dang optimistic and positive... except if his plans get changed and he can't hang out with his friends... he'll be a sour puss for a minute, but it doesn't take him long to really make the best of his situation! He's super athletic and fast!

They are way fun to have around. They are easy-going, helpful and all around good kids (guys?). They are great uncles and great brothers! We're glad they're back with us!

Now. Where can I sign them up for some professional modeling/acting?!

Self-Awareness.

2009-09-01T09:49:00.001-06:00

When was the last time you "grew" as a person? Like really truly had your eyes opened and saw the world differently?! Did you realize that you really don't know much and had your mind opened to the possibilities for growth? Did you get butterflies in your stomach just thinking about all the goodness in the world that could obtain?

When was the last time you accomplished something? Something you really weren't sure you could, but did! Did that open your mind to the things it had been closed to? Did your heart leap within you just thinking about all the things you knew you could do if you put your mind and heart into it?

The world is yours for the taking.

I'm taking it.

Just playin' at home...

2009-08-31T06:09:00.000-06:00

Here are a few pictures I took of my boys playing around at home... I needed some recent ones of them! Monkey Man was happy to jump off of the couches, climb on the stairs and do his animal impressions. I can hardly believe he will be three in 4 short months! They really are buddies and Turtle is exceptionally patient and tolerant of Monkey's constant rough housing and bugging... but he doesn't seem to mind one bit... in fact he loves it and is constantly laughing at his big brother! (Unless, it's a "sharp" pain, he doesn't complain much.) I truly love these boys and can't imagine my life without them!

Please Pray for the Nelson Family

2009-08-28T20:47:00.001-06:00

Please Pray for the Nelson family. I use to be in their ward/lived in the same neighborhood, and have been following their blog. Today brought devastating news that their 8 month old only has weeks left to live after fighting cancer. You can read their story HERE. There's not much to say, but my heart is full and goes out to them. Please keep them in your prayers...

Can't wait!

2009-08-28T07:21:00.001-06:00

Can't wait to see this kid's face in a few hours!

That's my brother who's coming to visit!!!! He's the bomb-diggity and we're gonna have us some fun! I miss my sibs so much! Only 3 more to get out here! :D

Exhale...

2009-08-27T10:41:00.003-06:00

Alrighty! I think I have my life under enough control that I can commit to blogging again! The TEENS are in school. The BABIES are happily entertained. And here I am, sitting at my laptop checking out the people who are checking me out (I do that) and have found some new followers and readers! It's oh so exciting that even though I've been a BLOGGING SLACKER you still love me... well, my blog anyway!

Some random thoughts I've been wanting to share with you...
*How does Walmart get so crazy!? I think they should take my $ and put in some traffic lights. Or something!
* Teenage boys eat. ALOT!
* I do love a full house. And I thoroughly enjoy the quiet moments. Esepcially if the babies are sleeping!
* Did I tell you that I finally watched Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince? I can't remember. Well, I did and I LOVED it!
* My side businesses are picking up and it's so exciting! But a little intimidating.
* When are they going to have a Blogging Convention here in UTAH? For real! Who do I need to talk to to get that party started?!
* Why do I have this need to always have a HUGE project to work on?
* How did I land such a sexy husband? That attribute wasnt even on my list of wants! Go ahead and gag, but he's hott!

* I still haven't potty trained my 2 1/2 year old... and don't care.

* I'm totally into Thank You cards right now!
* I discovered Provo Crafts. What a gem!
* I don't have any time to craft.
* My home is mostly in order and I love it. It feels pretty cozy.
* My home is not cozy when it's a mess. Which it usually is after 2pm.
* I have finally put music on my iPhone. My current favorite is Beyonce's Halo.

It's going to be a good day, today!

A Giveaway.... but not mine!

2009-08-27T09:43:00.002-06:00

I really really want a fair chance at winning these babies... 250 customized 5x7 cards! So here you go... give me another entry, Carolyn! :D

School Started

2009-08-25T14:14:00.002-06:00

School started last week. That shouldn't have meant a thing to me, alas we inherited (haha, that's so not the right word!) two teenage boys the weekend before and now we're on the public school's schedule. I guess it's not so bad!

It's going just fine, all things considered. Adjusting: yes. Succeeding: time will tell. I really think this change will be a good one.

Being a Mary Kay Beauty Consultant and a Photographer has been keeping me happily busy enough. There is something truly satisfying to have my own accomplishments and successes. Life is Good.

I read New Moon again. I could hardly stand to put it down. It amazes me how incredibly sucked in I got... again! Needlesstoday - I am giddy for the release of the movie version on November 20th! Did I mention that DH got me the series for my birthday? He did. And he's the best!

We will be visiting our wonderful friends in Las Vegas over Labor Day weekend who just had a beautiful miracle baby boy! :) I have availability on Saturday night (the 5th) for a photo shoot if anyone in the Henderson area is interested!

The boys are good. Monkey is coming up with the silliest lines. Yesterday, he asked me where his uncles went, and I told him they were at school and he responded, "Wow. I didn't even know that! That's crazy!" ... he cracks me up!

I suspect I will be blogging more often! Hopefully, I'll eventually get back to blogging daily - but not promises from me just yet! :)

Hope you all are having a great week!

Big Changes

2009-08-19T09:58:00.002-06:00

This has been quite the eventful summer! And by "summer" I mean, everyone else is out of school, though nothing but the weather has really been different for us! However. We had some big things happen this weekend, and will now have DH's 2 youngest brothers (ages 14 & 16) staying with us for a while because some big changes have occurred and we're trying to help with the transition. If you know me, you know they lived with us for over 2 years, and after some hellish disagreements on all sides it all hit the courts... anyway, this will definitely be a more "pleasant" experience all around.

So again, please be patient with me while we adjust to these new circumstances! I will be back soon!

Have you seen this?

2009-08-17T23:40:00.002-06:00

Found it on Team-Twilight... so clever! I found it hilarious and entertaining! I think you will too...

Oh. Yes!

2009-08-17T17:38:00.001-06:00

Just had to share!!

Opportunities

2009-08-14T22:14:00.003-06:00

I have been ridiculously busy as of late. I barely have time to blog... and running 4 blogs takes a lot of work, so I have to rotate my attention to each of them. Many opportunities have come our way this summer, and we're running with them! You may remember this post, and yes, I have become a Beauty Consultant, and its going AMAZING! I can hardly believe it. Among many changes within the extended families and trying to enjoy the outdoors as much as possible before it gets... you know... COLD. (Because in Utah - it gets cold, and stays cold for most of the year. But I do love Fall.)... I've just had to prioritize and blogging has had to take a back burner. :)

Fear not, I will be back.

in the mean time...

My In-Laws.

fascinating new life...

2009-08-03T06:46:00.000-06:00

I realized I hadn't shared these photos yet! This giraffe was one day old when I took these! A newborn giraffe! That is not something you see everyday! And it was amazing! Here are a few of my favorites, but to see more visit my photoblog!

Alicia's Photo Challenge: SHARE!

2009-08-01T19:19:00.002-06:00

Hello, hello! Are you ready to share your favorites from last months challenge?! I sure hope so! I'll be completely honest: it may take me a few days to get the next challenge up. But it is coming! To learn more about Alicia's Photo Challenge go HERE.

Okay, so last months challenge was: get familiar with your Post-Editing program, and try some different effects and filters. Learn how to crop your photo. Learn how to increase the contrast and balance it with brightness.

Simple enough. It was hard picking my favorite photo since I do a lot of post-editing! But there was one photo in particular that I loved the results.

This picture was taken when my oldest was 6 months old (about 2 years ago) when we were visiting my family in Hawaii. I wanted to develop it and put it up in our home, so I played with it first. I was amazed how great my skinned looked after a little smudging work on GIMP.

If you participated in the challenge, link up! Remember to visit one another and leave some comment love! It's always a great feeling to have a little support and hear words of encouragement!

I'm still here!

2009-08-01T00:45:00.003-06:00

I haven't forgotten about you! I'm still here and I apologize for being late on the next photography assignment! We've been taking advantage of the local zoo and aquarium (yes, there is an aquarium in the middle of this desert! And it's pretty cool, if I may say so myself!), the pool, and the opportunities that knock! I have been keeping busy with my Mary Kay business (did I tell ya'll I'm a Beauty Consultant now?), and I LOVE it! I have learned lots about myself and can feel the growth of doing things I didn't think I could do! I've just been busy busy busy! Which is new for me. Yes, so busy in fact, I have very very little time to blog! I KNOW! I'm telling you! This is new for me too! lol. I've been spending a lot more "quality" time with my sweet boys. They are growing up too quickly, and even though I am home with them everyday, I feel like I am missing it! I know you understand!

I have some pictures to share from the zoo... a one day old giraffe, and baby snow leopard! A.DOR.A.BLE!

But now I need to get to bed. So have a FABULOUS weekend! And I will get working on some good stuff to share with you!

Sweet faces.

2009-07-27T06:18:00.000-06:00

Have you had enough of my boys? Well, too bad! hahaha... :) I love these images because it really shows their little personalities!!

Drinking from the hose

2009-07-25T13:27:00.001-06:00

Oh summertime! These pictures say it all!

I love this kid.

Movie Reviews...

2009-07-24T09:06:00.002-06:00

Watched a bunch of movies I haven't seen yet. Mind you, these are not particularly new releases, but I'm curious what you all thought of these as well!

The Other Boleyn Girl

Interesting, but it got really weird at the end. I didn't read the book, but I can only imagine it was a lot better than the movie.

Vanity Fair

Over all, I liked the lightheartedness of it. I am a fan of Reese, which is really the only reason I watched it, and thought she did alright. I thought it was very sad though. I didn't really "get the message" but the costumes were stunning. I generally enjoy movies from this era.

Bedtime Stories

This movies is probably my favorite Adam Sandler performance. I love Happy Gilmore and Billy Madison.... but I particularly enjoy that I can now watch his goofiness with my children and not have to cover ears or skip scenes. It's Brilliant and well done! Thank you, Disney!

Confessions of a Shopaholic
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I really couldn't get into it! Even with Hugh Dancy! I KNOW! And Isla is darling. But yah, maybe it's because I could relate...?! I've never owned anything Prada in my life. Nor do I have intentions to.

Happily N'ever After 2

I have to tell you, my son is next to me, watching me blog and when he saw this picture he pointed at it and told me "Mommy, I hate that one." Really. He said that. And that pretty much sums it up. It was painful. PAINFUL! Eventually I just left the room to make dinner and had a hard time LISTENING to it! It was cheap. So very, very cheap.

There is something to be said for only watching the blockbuster hits. If it did well in the theater it's probably alright. If it didn't even make it to the theater, it might not be worth my 2 hours. I'd rather watch The Bachelorette or So You Think You Can Dance - because thats real life, yo!

Seen any good movies lately?!

Meet the Family...

2009-07-23T11:34:00.001-06:00

You probably feel "like this" with my boys. You probably know them as well as anyone! Monkey, Turtle and DH are my life.

But before that life, I was (/am) part of another family. My parents and sibling are some of my favorite people in the world! BUT I don't get to see them often because they all still live in HAWAII! So it's not like I can meet them half way or drive 12 hours to see them. It kinds sucks. But my dad has a facebook account now, and so do my brothers and they update their pictures fairly often - and I love it even though it makes me miss them! Anyway, I stole some to share with you!

May I introduce you to the people who raised me, and my (younger) siblings that I wish I were a bigger part of their lives! They're a lot more like me than they know!

Meet: My DAD. He's an easy-going guy who swims with fish for a living. Island life suits him well. Visit his company's website, Snuba Tours of Kauai.

Meet: My Mom! She's spunky and wise. She's so much cooler now than she was when I was a kid (and I mean that with all the love of my heart!) I look forward to the time that I am where she is now (basically, not changing diapers anymore and back in school! YES!)

Meet: Princess Megan (and friend). Yes, I am using her real name because I can't find myself changing it. That's who she is! She's a freaking doll. It's been a rough road for us as sisters, being 4 years apart and her always taking my stuff... (you know!)... but now she's one of my favorite people to be around! And she can't move out here soon enough!!

Meet: Surfer Boy. Haha... he might laugh when he reads that because it's such a small wave, but look at him! He's a stud. I'm so very proud of this one. He's like the male me. I feel this kid and know that he will be successful.

Meet: Haole Boy. The very friendly social bug. Don't be fooled by the nickname, this kid's pidgin is thicker than teriyaki sauce! An island boy with ambition (is that an oxymoron?) and talent!He's, like, the coolest 14 year old I know!

Meet: Baby Girl. The youngest of the group, she's had to thicken her skin a little to survive. She's a trooper and is up for pretty much any adventure! She loves the outdoors and being around her family! She doesn't know it yet, but she needs me! We'll be best friends one day... :D

That's my (first) Family!

Can you see why I miss them all so much?!

Let's just put this out there...

2009-07-22T08:54:00.001-06:00

So here is some randomness from my brain...

We went to the pool last week and I got toasted. I was very excited about the color I was going to have after the red healed up - now my right shoulder is peeling, which defeats the purpose. Guess we need to go again! (I had a low SPF block on, and we were in the sun for a looong time. The boys were fine. smothered in spf 50.)

I need to go through the boys clothes and organize them all by size.

I have recently discovered "YoVille" on Facebook... it's like a way simplified version of Sims.

I really like Sims. I haven't played it since Turtle was born.

I am 3/4 ways done with Harry Potter, and the Half-Blood Prince. I wanted to read it again to refresh my memory before watching the movie. Plus it's my way of savoring the anticipation of the movie.

DH has been working out every morning for the last 2 weeks. It's been good for him. And I think he's hott.

Today, I have resolved not to yell at or spank Monkey. I'm curious how he will respond. He's been a little rebel lately.

It's a beautiful day. Right now the weather is perfect, but it's going to get mighty hot later on.

I had a dream that I was swimming in the ocean. It was heavenly!

I watched a few episodes of "In the Motherhood" and was very, very disappointed. It was really stupid, and was borderline offensive for me. Some funny parts, yes. But they could have done a lot more with it.

I'm (always) trying to balance out my life. Currently, I'm working/focusing on: time spent on the computer, spending quality time with my boys, having a "real" social life, trying new things and pushing myself to do things that are hard and usually out of my comfort zone, being a better friend.

I really want to visit my family and friends back home.

I am grateful to finally be settled in our home.

Vacuum my brains out...

2009-07-21T13:22:00.001-06:00

okay, so that's a little bit of an exaggeration... but can I just say that

I Am Sick Of Cleaning!

It wouldn't be bad if I were just cleaning up after myself, but of course not. I have two sweet, active, curious, messy, easily distracted boys... well, make that three. DH is almost as bad, except that he doesn't spill his breakfast all over and then splash in the milk - I'll give him that much. But seriously! Am I the only who really sees all the messes that are made and left..?! Why, yes. I am. (As I yell to Monkey to pick up his cars before he gets out all of the balls... who am I kidding?!)

Someone, anyone! Tell me I'm not the only one. (Because if everyone else's two year old don't make messes and actually cleans up after themselves, I might sink into the abyss of depression... okay, not really, but I'd think about it!)

It's so bad that I see a big ol' mess of cereal under the table and don't want to sweep it up, because after the next meal I'll just have to do it again. I usually wait for the days worth of messes and clean up after the last meal... to do it all over again tomorrow.

You know what I'm talking about?

It doesn't help that our dryer is out of commission until DH figures out which bolt/screw/THING he needs to fix it... (he's tried a few different sizes and none are the right one so far), so the laundry is piling up and I have to do a few over-flowing loads at my in-laws. Don't even get me started on LAUNDRY!

Anywho. I pick my battles. I'm not going to vacuum right now, because I might scream.

You know, it's all about balance. Gatta have it.

It'll still be there later!

Standing in the Rain...

2009-07-19T16:20:00.004-06:00

Today it started raining... so Monkey and I stood out in the droplets falling on our arms and face... but it never really came down. Which was a disappointment because I was absolutely ready to be drenched and wanted to play in the rain with my son. It would have been a great memory.

Maybe next time.

Summer Time

2009-07-18T08:35:00.003-06:00

I love summer time. Even though it's ridiculously hot. I especially love that there is a City Rec center with a pool not too far from us. And my mother in law has ALL the kids (and in-law kids) on her family pass... SCORE!

We should be hitting said pool later today.

Hopefully I can even out these funky tan lines I got a few days ago...

It's going to be a great day!

Delirious is an understatement.

2009-07-17T06:31:00.000-06:00

Today I had another migraine. I'm guessing my 25 minute work out triggered it. Which really sucks because now I'm a little hesitant to work out. This one was bad. Not the pain part, the delirium part. Seriously, for about an hour I felt like I was on an acid trip and I was losing my mind. Does anyone else experience this "phase" in a migraine. Nothing makes sense. My brother in law came over to drop the boys off, and told me something, and all I could say was "nothing you just said makes any sense". Nothing DH was telling me sounded right, so I asked him if he was okay... I thought for a little while maybe everyone was going crazy...

You guys. It really really sucks. All I can do is pray and keep telling myself everything is going to be alright. And of course, once it's passed and I'm thinking straight, I know I was overreacting and that everything was fine except me.

This is particularly disturbing for me because I have always been sharp, very logical and exceptionally in control of my thoughts. I have never taken any sort of mind-altering substance because I fear losing control of my mind. And yet, when these migraines hit, which seems to be happening often as of late, I go through a phase of completely delirium. I even feel embarrassed when I think about it and how nutty I must sound and act.

I am going to schedule an appointment with a chiropractor and hopefully that will help. There has got to be something I can do to fix the problem! I went for 9 years without a migraine... and I don't know what has triggered them again. I'm pretty sure it's my spinal alignment or something of the like. So I guess that's a first step...

Wish me Luck!

If you CANNOT handle poop. Don't have kids.

2009-07-16T11:46:00.001-06:00

Because you will undoubtedly have to deal with it - no exceptions. And I'm not gonna lie, it's gross. I have been tried and tested and know that I can, indeed, deal with the my children's feces. Today was one of those days. Quick(not too graphic, but gross) story:

While Turtle and Monkey Man eat breakfast, I read my scriptures. It's the only time, first thing in the morning, that I have any quiet. Turtle sits in his booster seat, so I usually leave him in there as long as he's happy. Monkey can just get down himself when he's completely finished. While I was reading, DH came down stairs and we chatted for a bit. My back is facing the dining table, when DH asks me "what's all over [Turtle]?".

"Food." I assume. As I glance back, I say out loud... "What the...? I didn't give him anything brown..." As I take steps closer my heart starts racing as I imagine the worst...

It. Is. The. Worst.

And. Its. EVERYWHERE.

I didn't even want to touch him! DH was chuckling at this point and I look at him with pleading eyes, "Don't make me deal with this!" I'm thinking.

"What do you want me to do?!" He asks.

"I dunno. ANYTHING!" But I can't think of any other request than do it all!"

He's had a long night, I know. And I really can't imagine him handling this better than me (call it what you will, but, ultimately, I don't mind dealing with my children). I buck up, unbuckle the human disgustoid, and put him, shirt, diaper and all- right into the tub.

And I deal with it.

Good morning - TO ME!

I sit here with a heavy heart...

2009-07-14T23:13:00.003-06:00

I just learned that Stacey Wolfley, also known as "The Thrifty Chick" suddenly passed away yesterday due to a stroke. Stacey was featured here and a supporter of Imma Momma. Two weeks ago, she had her beautiful baby boy. My heart is aching and although, I never met Stacey "in real life", I was instantly touched by her friendship. I regularly follow her blogs and anxiously awaited the arrival of her son.

I don't have much to say as I process all of this. Please keep her beautiful family in your thoughts and prayers.

Things I've learned...

2009-07-11T13:01:00.001-06:00

It's been a... unique week... out of the normal, if you will. Not bad, not particularly good... just odd. I think it's me. I think my perception on my life, myself, my family, my surroundings has been altered or something. Because I feel like a different person, and I like it.

But here are random things I've learned this week, (mostly about myself):

Infant Tylenol is for reducing fevers and will do nothing for inflammation. Use Infant Advil (or Ibuprofen) to reduce inflammation, like in a dislocated shoulder that has been reset and is still... inflamed and tender.
You can still find Scriptures that clip shut. We found one at Seagull Books and thought it was a rare find, and when my husband asked if they had any other colors, she told us that the Distribution Center has a really great selection. In fact, that's where they get theirs from.
I hate it when my children are in pain, whether physical and emotional. I thought I would handle those situations better (because I knew they would come!)... but I don't. I bawl.
Dr. Campbell, of Campbell Chiropractics in American Fork is GREAT. I give you my recommendation.
I really like The Living Planet Aquarium in Sandy. So do my kids. My favorite was the HUGE Octopus. I mean, HUGE!
When I get out-of-the-house "ME" time, I am a happier wife and mom. I actually look forward to coming home and seeing their precious faces. I seriously recommend it to all my mommy friends.
I need balance in my life. Now that I know how much I need it, I am setting goals to achieve it.
I like my Gazelle. But I don't like that my boys seem to like it as much as I do. Those stinkers have no fear and probably wont learn until it bonks 'em in the head. (If even then!)
I'm not very good with money. Taking steps to change this.
I love downloading free applications onto my iPhone. Our favorites are Bug Squash, Paper Toss, BubbleWrap, and Blowfish.
I'm still a procrastinator.
I'm in no hurry to potty train my 2 year old.
I am enjoying doing things I haven't done before and welcome the challenges they bring.

To name a few. What have you learned this week?

Hello Again, and Independence Day Fun

2009-07-09T14:14:00.001-06:00

Hi everyone! I've been really taking a break from blogging. Not because there isn't anything to blog about - but because I'm trying to get out and do more in the Real Word, which leaves me with just enough energy to straighten up the house, and prepare some sort of dinner. So blogging has been put on the back burner.

My birthday was fabulous except that Turtle's arm popped out of his socket while attempting family pictures (the whole experience was traumatizing... I am never going to attempt family portraits on my own again!). I'll report on my birthday in another post.

Lets back up to the 4th...

We really didn't do much for Independence Day. We missed the balloon launch and parade, but that's alright. We had a fun afternoon at Grandma's for a Bar-B-Q. Monkey loves it there because there's so much for the kids to do, and not mention all the other kids he gets to play with! His favorite was playing the pool. You can tell by his expressions he was having a blast! He was laughing so hard. It was precious.

Turtle was like a magnet to the pool. He would have gone right in if he wasn't under such tight surveillance! It was just a little too deep for him. But that didn't stop him from having fun, no siree! He discovered the slide and swing! Fun times!

The trampoline is always a big hit, but it makes me ridiculously nervous. DH had a blast flipped around and playing with the boys! Monkey was really trying to be like his daddy and flip, but flopped. I'm sure he'll keep working on it!

It was a nice day. I didn't end up doing any fireworks because DH had to work that evening and Turtle was D.O.N.E by the time the fun started. Oh well, we have the 24th to do them. (It's Pioneer Day here in Utah, which is an official "firework" holiday). No (long term) harm done.

I have a bunch of crazy pictures to share... and I'll get to them eventually!

Happy Independence Day

2009-07-04T09:19:00.001-06:00

How I love this country. I am grateful for the many freedoms I enjoy. I am proud of our country's history. I pray for today's leaders and hope that they will continue to preserve the freedoms our Founding Fathers sacrificed so much for. I am grateful for the Troops that continue to serve our country and its people. I have so much to be grateful for today.

Happy Independence Day!

Where the heck did July come from?!?!

2009-07-03T10:25:00.001-06:00

Seriously, you guys! I was all psyched to do some giveaways and fun stuff... but HELLO! I'm so not even prepared - even though I wanted to be! It's just been crazy. So I regret to inform you that there will be no giveaways right now...

SORRY!

Wordless Wednesday

2009-07-01T12:07:00.001-06:00

*sigh*....

And I'm back!

2009-06-30T10:30:00.001-06:00

Thanks for all your kind words and sweet emails. It really made my day! I'm ready to take on the world again! I guess I just needed a little pity party... some reassurance and encouragement!

Thanks Again!

I was going to save this for tomorrow's Wordless Wednesday... oh well. It's too good to save...

He fell asleep watching one of his shows on my computer (he often prefers it over the TV). Cute, huh? It's moments like these that make me smile and hand me a little reality check.

Life is good.

Especially when the kids are sleeping...

Identity Crisis

2009-06-30T00:06:00.001-06:00

It's been an exceptionally difficult weekend. Can't pin-point it. Nothing out-of-the-ordinary has even happened. I just feel weird! Unsettled. Bored. Mentally UNstimulated. My conversations are pretty much extended to my 2 and 1 year old and my blog readers ... (both groups have a special place in my heart)

But That's Bad.

Sure, I have friends. But thanks to Facebook, I know what they're up to and we never even talk anymore! I miss chatting on the phone for hours and having regular human interaction.

How much of this is being a work-from-home mom, and how much is me being anti-social?

And I am just dying for a get-away! DH has been working so hard he's wearing thin - which doesn't help MY situation - and I know he needs a vacation, too. But we just can't right now.

Sorry for the negativity lately...

But I'm in a funk.

I want to do something fun and spontaneous! Go to the amusement park, or up in the mountains... something! ANYTHING!

So here's the other thing... the thought of doing that makes me tired. I easily talk my way out of it (well, think my way out of it, I don't usually talk to myself, believe it or not!)

I guess my question is, is this a common mommy symptom? Do you ever feel trapped in your home/neighborhood/community? I mean, I FINALLY made it to WalMart today to pick up the contacts I ordered... they came in 3 weeks ago! I'm being lazy, I know. However, this morning I actually woke up earlier than the boys this morning to use the Gazelle I got at a Yard Sale on Saturday (SO EXCITED!)... that wasn't lazy!

I'm venting now...

When I think about questions like:

What makes you laugh? What makes you cry? If you could have, do or be anything... what would that be?

I don't know!!

And that really bothers me. I'm a mom, I love my kids. I am grateful I can be home with them and raise them. The little things they do make me smile. In that element, I'm fine. Is that who I am? But when it comes to doing things that 5 years ago, before I had children or was married, I LOVED and KNEW and THRIVED on...

Goals. Aspirations. Motivation. It's still there, just sleeping. And I can't seem to wake 'em up.

And that's kind of depressing.

Hobbies are good. I have a few. I enjoy them. But they aren't enough.

I'm hoping/praying my most recent opportunity will be the one I've needed to find me again! To be ALICIA. Not just "Mom" and "Hun"... (which, I love, but I hope you know what I mean).

I don't mean to sound like an ungrateful brat...

But what happened to ME? MY Identity as an inidividual? As a woman? Friends are so important! I need to be in touch and send real-life hand-written cards again! (I used to be so good at that!). I need to make REAL LIFE phone calls and TALK. I need to reconnect.

I love you, internet, but you've made it WAY to EASY to be connected! I don't even have to say "HI" anymore to know what's going on in the lives of friends and family! And they don't have to say HI anymore to know how my kids are doing! And TEXTING! I used to hate it when someone would text instead of call. Now I am so GUILTY. I'm such a hypocrite! Am I afraid to talk? No, I don't think so... it's just EASIER (especially when it's someone you haven't talked to in a long while... like pretty much everyone...)!

If I call you, or you get a little "hello" from me, don't freak out. I think it's time we all start reconnecting in real life.

Wow. That was a tangent.

It's late. I'm going to sleep!

Learn about yourself...

2009-06-29T09:04:00.003-06:00

My husband and I have done this periodically since we were married, and have always been impressed. It has helped us understand each other a little better...

ColorGenics

Take it for what it's worth. If you're willing to hear things about yourself, you may learn a thing or two!

My "headers" are finalists...

2009-06-28T18:39:00.001-06:00

So go over to MOMDOT and vote for them! Please. #1 or #6. (Personally I like #1 mo' bettah)

Mucho Mahalos!

(I wasn't going to blog it, but April did so I am... *stick out tongue* haha... might as well!)

What NOT to do...

2009-06-28T17:45:00.001-06:00

Have you ever taken your kid(s) to a late night movie at a theater because you didn't want to go through the hassle of getting a babysitter, thinking that they would "just sleep through it" and they DON'T?!

Wish I could have seen that one coming!

Now we know, right? Now we know that babysitters are a key to my sanity. Now we know that no matter how well I think I know my boys, they are just full of surprises. Now I know that if I want to spend any quality time with my husband, it's not gonna happen with the boys around (at least not at this point of our lives). Now I know that it's truly, truly embarrassing to deal with fussy kids in a room where ZERO talking is expected, and how embarrassing it is to have to walkout, across and in front of people, to exit said room. Maybe having Monkey kick someone's head on the way out.

Needlesstosay. No quality time was achieved.

What. So. Ever.

Rough Day

2009-06-26T23:42:00.002-06:00

Today was rough. Just a good old fashion - BAD DAY. The boys weren't exceptionally naughty, and DH didn't really do anything to deserve my attitude towards him.

I must have woken up on the wrong side of the bed.

Now that we even have a bed.

But I don't think that's it. I just needed a "down day"... and I don't get those. So I took one without asking. But it didn't sit well. I didn't even get out of my PJs until after 5pm. But I did get a nap in. Haven't had one of those in a while. But I just felt so BLAH today. I didn't even want to blog. I didn't want to do the things I should do, so I got by with the bare minimum and kept my home in order, for my own sake. If my house was a wreck that would have increased my anxiety level - um... a lot.

So, I may not blog this weekend. Just letting you know now.

I need to find balance in my life.

And blogging has been tipping the scale.

And I do it for free.

So, love you guys. Be back when I have something to say that will enrich you lives... because you deserve that.

Sorry for the negativity, but I wanted to keep ya'll in the loop-dee-loop.

Enjoy your weekend!

Alicia's JULY Photo Challenge: Post Editing

2009-06-26T10:17:00.002-06:00

Welcome to another photo challenge! To read about Alicia's Photo Challenge go HERE.

You guys have been doing great! It's been a lot of fun. But I bear unhappy tidings. I'm going to start doing these challenges MONTHLY. It takes a little too much work for me to do them weekly. Mostly mentally because I'm constantly thinking about it when I should be doing other things...

SO. This challenge will be for JULY. We'll link up at the end of July. That will give you plenty of time to actually PRACTICE.

...

Today I'll tell you a few of my post-editing secrets. I really try to get as close to my wanted results with my camera, but most of my pictures are freshened up just a bit in Post editing.

And guess what? (This is the secret)

I. Don't. Use. Photoshop.

Nope! I have two programs I use, and between the two they do everything I could want. And guess what else? (another secret)

They. Are. Free!

Yah. Free downloads.

You want them, don't you?

ALLLRIGHT... I'll share them with you! :) Mostly, I use Photoscape. I increase the contrast a tinsy bit, brighten them up and add a little vignetting. Then if I need to soften/smooth the skin tones... I use GIMP. GIMP is like the free Photoshop. You'll love 'em.

There are things you can do with your post-editing that your camera may not be capable of. You can play with effects that add time and emotion to your photo. It's a lot of fun.

You can brighten up the colors. Change a photo to black and white, or sepia. You can add borders. You can heal blemishes. You're imagination is your limit (usually).

So July's challenge is: to get familiar with your Post-Editing program, and try some different effects and filters. Learn how to crop your photo. Learn how to increase the contrast and balance it with brightness. Then, on July 30th (Thursday), choose you're favorite (or favoriteS) to post, and we'll link up! I recommend sharing the original and final product. (You can post your photo anytime during the month, and then just add THAT link.)

Don't forget to take a button and put it on your post (Thanks!). Feel free to contact me if you have any questions, and I will do my best to answer them!

Now, go have fun!

I FREAKING WON

2009-06-25T11:14:00.004-06:00

I won't relate my whole sob story of how I have NEVER WON ANYTHING... because Megan at Remarks from Sparks is my favorite, most giving (she just might gag that I said that), provocative blogger out there! If you don't read her blog, you're missing out. (Unless you're easily offended and have no sense of humor, then skip it. I won't be responsible for your blood pressure...)

Anyhow this morning I was getting my daily dose of Megan, and saw THIS:

SHUT. UP. That's ME! ME! I WON the iPHONE! Yessiree, I did! I already called DH at work and now I have to tell YOU GUYS, because I. Am. STOKED! (Stoked is, like, beyond excited!)

Thank you, Megan!

My current playlist...

2009-06-23T09:00:00.002-06:00

Incase you were wondering about what music I like... (you probably weren't :p)... here it is. This version of "Bellas Lullaby" is incredibly soothing and inspiring. Between Bellas Lullaby and Infinite Ocean... I keep this on a loop. What's on your playlist?

Momma and her boys...

2009-06-23T06:39:00.000-06:00

I couldn't help but post these! It's been a while since I've had any pictures taken with my boys... and these were just so fun! See Monkey's scowl? I don't know where that came from but it's cute anyway. Turtle didn't really know what was going on, but was a good sport! You can click on them, but they don't get that much bigger...

I Love being a Momma!!!

Big Red Kitchen - Cookie Dough Pie

2009-06-22T09:15:00.000-06:00

This week I discovered Big Red Kitchen... and can I just say that this looks divine?! I'm going to make it this week. I'm so excited. You bloggin' ladies are some sorta amazing! Go HERE for the direct link to this delectable looking (and I'm sure tasting as well!) Cookie Dough Pie...

Preparing for July...

2009-06-22T06:52:00.000-06:00

I'm turning 25 on July 7. In honor of... me... (and you!) I'm going to have 7 giveaways in July (one each day until the 7th). If anyone is interested in sponsoring a giveaway, contact me and lets's rock it! It can be as simple or as valuable as you choose. I'm not discriminating. If we get more than 7 then we'll giveaway more than 7... that would be too awesome!

And if anyone wants to send me something for my birthday, I'm really okay with that.

ALSO if your birthday is in July let me know... I'm thinking of something to love on fellow Julyians (haha... totally made that up - JUST NOW...)

I've got these darling hand-crafted-with-lots-of-love-and-patience-cards-made-by-me I'm going to throw in the mix... and probably a photo shoot... so check it out. I'll find some other stuff I think you'll love, too.

Alrighty... gatta get back to my REAL LIFE...

Happy Fathers Day!

2009-06-21T09:12:00.001-06:00

Happy Father's Day!

2009-06-21T06:15:00.000-06:00

I spent the last week working on this for my dad...

How CUTE, huh? Got the idea... from... holy stinker... I can't even remember. I saw the same idea on, like 3 different blogs (all referring to the same site... I'll find it and share it because they deserve the credit!

Anyway, I tried to do a "DAD" one... but they D's we NOT working out...

... and I needed TWO!

So alas, DH doesn't get one this year. He'll understand.

So I turned THAT in this:

I think he'll love it.

I'll report on DH's receiving end later... :)

*HERE's the Direct link (it was featured on TipJunkie).

Small Talk Six - Daddy Deserves...

2009-06-20T09:20:00.001-06:00

Join in that Saturday blogging fun over at momdot.com! Today's Small Talk Six topic is:

6 things you think the father of your children deserve to have

Funny how DH has been the "theme" of my blog this week... and incase you haven't heard enough about him this week... we're going to top it off with a Father's Day post tomorrow! Well, it is my blog after all!

6 things he deserves...

1. Unconditional Love...

2. A job he looks forward to going to each day...

3. Financial Freedom

4. A recording studio.... (you should hear this man sing!)

5. An XBox 360...?!

6. All expense paid trip to Europe including tickets to some Premiere League games...

How about your man?

Nightmares.

2009-06-19T09:36:00.000-06:00

You know those dreams that wake you up in the middle of the night, and you just feel overwhelmed - and cry, right there in the dark? But my morning, you can't recall the emotions though vague details of the nightmare linger. Replaying what you do remember in your mind, just doesn't evoke the emotions that brought you to tears - it doesn't feel real anymore...

You know what I'm talking about?

That happened to me last night. It was a terrible, terrible dream. About my children. It broke my heart. But now that I'm awake and think about the nightmare, it seems unrealistic. Yet last night - it was so real.

I hate that.

Alicia's Photo Challenge #3: Rule of Thirds

2009-06-18T22:44:00.001-06:00

Welcome to another photo challenge! To read about Alicia's Photo Challenge go HERE.

It's been a looong day today, and I'm really exhausted right now... you know when you're mind is a little... err... tired?! That's me right now. The reason I'm mentioning this is because this weeks challenge is a really simple, and I'm trying to get into it and teach you all I know... but I can't think very deeply right now! haha... so don't mind my generic captions on the pictures and what not! (I'm sure ya'll wont mind anyhow, you're all so great like that, but I know what I expect from myself... and well, I am my own worst critic.) Now that I got that off my chest... moving on...

Have you heard of "the rule of thirds"? Well, "traditionally" when taking portraits, you would imagine your photo being split into thirds, horizontally and vertically... the eyes of your subject would be 2/3 ways up the photo... and centered. While there really isn't anything particularly wrong with this... and as darling as your subject is... it can get boring. Let's try something different...

Feel free to throw your subject far to the left or right, or halves... you'll only figure out what you like if you try it. Remember that with photography, there is no right or wrong. It is how you see something. The beauty of photography is the diversity!

So this week's challenge is simple. Play around with centering and off-centering your subject. See what you like best! But try it all! Don't forget to watch for distracting shadows on the face (particularly the eyes). Then come back next Thursday and link up to share your favorite(s)!

Don't forget to take a button and put it on your post (Thanks!). Feel free to contact me if you have any questions, and I will do my best to answer them!

Now, go have fun!

Alicia's "Get in There" Photo Challenge: SHARE!

2009-06-18T06:18:00.001-06:00

Hello! Hope you all are ready to share your favorite photo from last week's challenge! To learn more about Alicia's Photo Challenge, go HERE! Thanks!

Last weeks challenge was: Practice taking pictures capturing details and getting up close to your subject. Practice getting up close to eliminate distracting backgrounds. Don't forget to watch for unwanted shadows and continue practicing in different light. Here's mine:

I admit, I was a bit of a slacker this week taking photos. But I did get this one. This little guy is slowly but surely thinning out. I particularly want to capture his cheeks! He was such a chunky monkey (still is a big boy!), but ever since he's began crawling - and now walking - he's getting thinner! I want to be able to one day show him pictures of himself at this stage of life... so here it is!

If you haven't already posted yours - do it now! (If you have questions, contact me) And then come here and add the link (directly to your post) on Mr. Linky! Then go visit each other and see all the possibilities (and don't forget to leave a little comment love!) Then (you're not done yet!) - Come back tomorrow for the next challenge!

Worth a Thousand Words... {tagged!}

2009-06-17T23:45:00.000-06:00

Lins at Goodbye, Martha tagged me! (What's up with that silly giddy feeling of being tagged?! Anyhow, I love it!) It's an easy one... the instructions are as follows:

Open my first photo folder
Scroll down to the 10th photo
Post that photo and story on my blog
Tag five friends to do the same

Here goes nothing... Pictures... the first album... alrighty... 10th pictures... haha... just can't get enough of him, I guess!

Here you have it (this is an album of scanned-in pictures):

This is Mr. Man, my sweetheart when he was probably around 1 year old! Isn't he just the cutest little thing?!?!

I tag...

And since we're in this album... here are a few of my personal faves, just for the fun of it...

Me. In a wig. I LOVE this wig. I should have bought it! Alas, every year when Halloween comes around - I look for one like it! This picture was taken almost 5 years ago! This was when DH and I were engaged and he had just left me on Kauai... we would be separated for 4 months before finally getting married! His sisters and I headed off to KMart to find a little fun... we found it!

This was taken at Borders Books and Music just after our KMart rendezvous. Obviously, my hair is not really that red, but it can get pretty curly! Why we even took these pictures - I don't know!

CHECK THAT ONE OUT! Yah, that's really me. And this was taken with film and has had ZERO photoshopping... a little fun with the circle thing though... I don't even remember looking like this. But sheesh! I was tan and the thinnest I'll ever be. I took this one for DH when we were apart before getting married... I guess I had to keep reminding him that he should marry me! (I loved that watch... I don't even remember what happened to it! Hate that.)

ANYWAY!! Talk about a little step back into time! I don't know how the subject went from DH to me...haha... wait... yah I do.

Back to HIM: Here's a good one... this wwas taken before I met him... (and they're in this same "album" aka "folder".)

He's on the right. Dang. I don't even know what the story is behind the picture... but I don't care. I'm just glad someone snapped a photo!

*Uuuhhhh... can you tell he's pretty much my life?! The idea of being in love is almost as fun as actually finding someone to be in love with. Are you gagging yet? Sorry, blame it on Twilight. It always re-sparks my flame...

Reminder...

2009-06-17T09:44:00.001-06:00

Tomorrow is the day to post your favorite picture (or plural!) from last week's Photo Challenge! it's never too late to join in!

Did I tell ya'll that my birthday is July 7th?! No? I didn't?! I mean... I just did..! Yep! 7-7. It's a very lucky birthday to have... if you're Japanese. I'm not. But my kids are... in their big toe. But none of their birthdays are 7-7... so... luck wasted, I guess. Speaking of my sister, Princess, her birthday is 8-8-88. True story! I'm sure she'd like to be cashing in some Asian Luck right about now... :)

So... it seems to be the cool thing to do a birthday giveaway (and I so need to be E-Cool) PLUS I have some fun stuff that I just want to give to some awesome commenter! But my rules will be a little different. So... um... just comment on everything... everyday... haha... and follow me on Twitter (@MySweetNothings)...

Since it's not even July yet, and I have a few more things I want to throw in the giveaway mix... just um... yah... I'm going to leave you hanging and when I figure out all the details I'll share 'em!

Anyway, come back tomorrow to share your photos! That's really all I meant to tell ya!

Have a Great Day!

Make Believe.

2009-06-17T08:38:00.001-06:00

Poor Tigger is doubling as a cake...and is being cooked in a old (clean) yogurt container as I type. Sucks to be him.

Peace and Quiet - Wordless Wednesday.

2009-06-17T06:35:00.000-06:00

It gets even better when he stays asleep after I've brought him in and laid him down..!

My escape from reality... :)

2009-06-16T08:29:00.001-06:00

In the book I was torn... but if it comes down to Rob or Taylor... it's no question I'm on Team Jacob! Cast your vote at people.com.

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Brandon Mull's FableHaven. Have you read it? If you're a fan of Harry Potter, you'll probably enjoy it! I love the relationship between siblings, Kendra and Seth! The funny thing is I relate to Kendra... and if you know me, you know I wish I could talk to Faeries!! Seth is a typical trouble-maker who has to learn how to make responsible decisions. Their adventures are (literally) Out of This World! It's a very good read... but don't be fooled, "FableHaven: Secrets of the Dragon Sanctuary" is not the last book! I totally thought it was going to be, but when I got towards the end realized there was no way it was going to have all the closure I needed... Thanks, Brandon Mull! Totally threw me for a loop there! I'm not gonna lie, I'm looking forward to book 5... but I am so anxious! I don't like waiting for the next book!!!

Friend Makin' Monday - Confessions.

2009-06-15T09:29:00.001-06:00

It's that time again! Join up at All That is Good! What kind of friends would we be if we didn't confide our deepest darkest secrets with each other? Umm... not... good friends... haha...

So today's task is Confessions! Spill your guts! I really don't have any deep, dark secrets... but there are things I do that I would probably never mention otherwise... So just incase you think I'm perfect {Insert laugh HERE}... Here goes nothing!

1. I let both of my boys sleep in my bed. Every. Night.

2. I let Disney Pixar babysit my kids when I want to do nothing... or anything!

3. I don't put away DH's laundry. He's a big boy - he can do it himself. If he doesn't put it away, it ends up in a HUGE pile. I don't even care.

4. I only cook dinner a couple of times a week. The rest of the week it's leftovers, saimin or something out of a can.

5. My boys never go to sleep before 9pm.

6. I bite my nails.

7. When I read the Twilight series I ignored my kids and husband a lot. (Which is why I can't bring myself to read it again right now - as badly as I want to!).

8. I don't take out the trash.

9. I like to lick the butter off the inside of hot popcorn bags. (This is pretty much as deep and dark as they get!)

10. Sometimes I'll go a whole week without washing my hair.

11. I am really bad at returning phone calls.

Alrighty... I think that's good enough! Haha... Oh Boy! We're THAT much closer now...

Meant.

2009-06-14T21:39:00.001-06:00

I've been pretty emotional lately... and I'm especially grateful for my sweet husband. I felt like sharing this...

If you really knew me, you would know why I need him.

When we met, he didn't hold back or play games with me -he let me know he was interested.

When I didn't return the feelings, he didn't give up. He waited.

When I categorized him as being like every other guy - he didn't argue with me. He proved me wrong.

When I dated other guys, he was my friend.

When a boy made me cry - he listened.

When a friend died - he was there for me.

When I wanted to know what he was feeling - he told me.

When I missed him - he came.

When I was insecure - he reassured me.

When I felt crazy - he held me.

When I was done with other boys - he came for me.

When we lived states apart, we talked every night and he drove 12 hours to visit me... often.

When I needed a hug - he hugged me.

When I needed to talk - he talked with me.

When I told him I loved him - he said, "I love you too".

When I was ready to give up - he wouldn't let me.

When I called off our wedding - he still married me.

When I wanted forever - he married me in the Temple.

The only time I yelled at him - he didn't yell back.

When I needed him to do better - he did.

When I decided to become a professional photographer - he bought my camera.

When I felt alone and sad - he showed me he loved me.

When we had to be apart - he trusted me.

When my brother died - he was my rock.

When I was pregnant - he took care of me.

When I wanted taco bell - he got it for me.

When I had our children - he was there, holding my hand.

When I wanted to start a business - he sold his dirt bike.

When I missed my family - he bought my ticket.

When I make mistakes - he forgives me.

When I need a break - he watches the boys.

When I get sick - he takes care of me.

When I cry - he kisses my tears.

When I want him by my side - he comes with me.

When I need him - he's there for me.

While I grow - he is patient with me.

He doesn't try to change me to fit him, we grow together to fit each other.

Through all we've been through - he hasn't given up on me.

This is the man of my dreams. He didn't have to be rich. He didn't have to be perfect. The man of my dreams would sweep me off my feet and return all the love I had been waiting to give.

Yes, I'm a very lucky girl.

Time and All Eternity...

2009-06-14T06:15:00.000-06:00

I get to be with these sweet, handsome boys forever! I don't even need to be an immortal vampire to be with my sweetheart forever! This is the best knowledge I have attained in this life.

He's the best daddy and a pretty freaking awesome husband and best friend. He's the strong silent type, and thinks he looks better in pictures if he doesn't smile. But what you don't know if that he has the most perfect smile I have even seen. And he's never even had braces. I'm gonna see if he'll do a guest post because I think you would enjoy it. :)

Going Vegetarian

2009-06-13T18:53:00.001-06:00

Yes, you read it right! Our family is going vegetarian. Mostly. Not hard core, just at home at the very least. If I go out to a restaurant, you best believe I am ordering me a steak. But we will eat meat sparingly, except fish, we can't give it up.

The reason we're doing this is for DH. Everything he eats makes him sick. Well, just about everything. There is a notion that because his blood is type A, he shouldn't eat meat... makes him sick! Other things that make him sick are fried things, eggs, sugar, red sauce, some dairies, just about anything processed... you know, all the yummy stuff!

So we're going to try it. All vegetarian meals for the next few weeks for starts. We'll see how much strain this puts on me, and if there are any improvements in DH's tortured tummy.

We made a list of stuff he CAN eat, and it's not as bad as I thought. In fact, it a pretty darn delicious-looking list. And healthy! Which is always a good thing.

I suppose I'll keep ya'll updated on our latest adventure!

I'm excited!

Overdraft fees

2009-06-13T08:00:00.004-06:00

I am so sick to my stomach right now. This is way personal, but here it goes...
I just check my account online and found out where my money that I thought I had was going... OVERDRAFT FEES! I'm obviously not the best at balancing my checkbook but generally I know how much is in there... but I didn't realize that DH's .98 cent soda would add up to $20.98 with over draft fees! There are TWELVE overdraft charges. That's $120 WASTED.

I'm so sick right now...

...and I am NOT going garage sale-ing today.

Alicia's Photo Challenge #2: Get In There!

2009-06-12T06:24:00.000-06:00

Read all about Alicia's Photo Challenge, HERE!

What is the subject of your picture? Your kid? Your dog? Your craft? Your toes? Whatever it is, lets make that the focus of your picture... not the guy picking his nose in the left side background.

Get up close and personal! Don't be afraid to cut off a little hair on top. Don't feel obligated to capture the whole umbrella. Capture the details of your child's smile, his eyes, his fat little fingers - the details you love about him (or her, of course!).

But don't cut off the chin!

By getting up close, you also eliminate distracting backgrounds (and by distracting, I mean anything that isn't solid, pretty or... um... distracting...) The focus will be where you intend it to be!

Pretty simple, huh? It might take a little bit to get used to cutting out the excess - but you will love it!

The Challenge: Practice taking pictures capturing details and getting up close to your subject. Practice getting up close to eliminate distracting backgrounds. Don't forget to watch for unwanted shadows and continue practicing in different light. Mr. Linky will be up for you to share your favorite on Thursday, June 18th!

Don't forget to take a button and put it on your post (Thanks!). Feel free to contact me if you have any questions, and I will do my best to answer them!

Now, go have fun!

Alicia's Photo "Lighting" Challenge - SHARE!

2009-06-11T06:18:00.000-06:00

Hello! Hope you all are ready to share your favorite photo from last week's challenge! To learn more about Alicia's Photo Challenge, go HERE! Thanks!

Last weeks challenge was: Practice taking pictures using the light around you. Notice the difference it makes in a photo when you take them in direct sunlight vs. filtered sunlight (i.e. overcast, window or in the shade). If you have a source of controlled light, play with it. Use it to highlight the focus of your image. Lighting is the key to an image, so we're starting here.

Here's mine:

I took this in the shade. (I freshened it up a tad in post-editing... but we'll talk more about that another time!)

If you haven't already posted yours - do it now! (If you have questions, contact me) And then come here and add the link (directly to your post) on Mr. Linky! Then go visit each other and see all the possibilties (and don't forget to leave a little comment love!) Then (your not done yet!) - Come back tomorrow for the next challenge!

Okay, now you can go!

A Few Thoughts and Reminders

2009-06-10T08:42:00.001-06:00

I'm savoring the last installment of FableHaven right now. That's why I didn't blog yesterday. Also, Monkey has a pretty bad cough and both (ok, lets be honest, all three boys) have been a little clingy. So I was just mommy (and wifey) yesterday. I love it when I'm so needed.

Also, wanted to remind all of you participating in Alicia's Photo Challenge, that tomorrow we will be sharing our photos from the Lighting Challenge! If you haven't heard about it and would like to join up, please do!

We're moved in now. Still have about 15 boxes that need to be unpacked and lots of stuff to find homes for! I'm really excited to be in this place and really want to get settled! Not just in our home, but in the area and community and ward! Tomorrow night our Ward's Relief Society is having a Service Auction, and so I signed up to auction off two portrait sessions! I'm cool like that. Plus I want to meet people and make friends. And there were only a few things on the list, so I figured what the heck!

My dad is going to be in town for a few days! I'm super thrilled to see him! Although, I'm pretty positive he's really just coming to see my boys... he and Monkey are like this. We lived in Hawaii with my parents for a year when I had Turtle, and Monkey would garden with his "Papa" every morning because we couldn't build a barricade efficient enough to keep him upstairs... good times!

Anyway, I'm rambling now! I'm so looking forward to seeing what ya'll come up with! And don't forget to come back on Friday for Challenge #2: Get In There!

Have a Great One!

Scowl? (Wordless Wednesday)

2009-06-10T08:05:00.001-06:00

Do you see those eyebrows? Those are some serious eye-brow muscles! (click to enlarge). I know exactly where he gets them from. His great-grandpa on his dad's side! I have pictures from the first day he was born... and he had that same look. So intense! This is kid is full of the most dramatic faces! He cracks me up.